My Journey in Ignatian Sprituality
My exposure to student activism in the 70's led me to take up Sociology - Anthropology at the Ateneo. I must admit, though, that having an Atenean boyfriend (to whom I have been married for almost 38 years) helped in my decision to go to the Ateneo.
Four Atenean daughters later, working with the Jesuits for almost 20 years - at the Ateneo Admissions Office with Fr. Ting Samson, S.J.; and at Sacred Heart School - Ateneo de Cebu with Fr. Ernie Javier, S.J. and Fr. Manny Uy, S.J.; and now living La Vida Lola in North America, I give thanks to the Lord every day for all that I am today, for the things that have happened in my life, both good and bad.
The spirit of Magis grew in me after graduation. As life got better for us and the more blessings we had, the more we were able to share them with others. Mine was a journey, too, in Ignatian Spirituality. It became a constant and most important resource in the trials in my life and in the joys, too. I emerged a better person after each experience. The principles of Magis and Ignatian Spirituality also guided Tony and me in imparting values to our children, not only by teaching but also by example. One thing great about having an all Ateneo family is you are all on the same page.
As long as I practised these values, life became more simple for me but it did not happen in an instant. My spirituality deepened as I encountered trials and tribulations. In fact, I have become so dependent on the Lord and luckily now, at the crossroads of my life, I have more time to talk with Him. Ain't that great? And the Lord's promise that His yoke is easy and His burden is light is so true. I look at the birds in the air and I am reminded about God's constant love for me especially during my retirement years. Then I am at peace.
I must add that my college batch, the KOB e-group (King of the Blues) headed by Noel Canivel keeps the fire of Ateneo brewing in our hearts even after all those years out of college. It is so heartwarming to know that we can count on each other for support and camaraderie. And I am glad, too, that this group composed of a majority of gentlemen, has welcomed us, coeds, as one of the "guys".
To God be the glory!
(Source: From The Women of Ateneo file – “Listen to the voices of coeds”)
